It's been a little over a week since our daughter was born!! Audrey Liesel was born on March 12 @ 1842. It was quite the wait to see her! We went in for our doctors appointment on Wednesday morning. At first, my midwife didn't say anything about inducing until half way through the appointment. I was 2cm dilated and 80% effaced and having an awful time with my gallbladder. She called the on call doc for a slot that day but they were booked. So they scheduled me for Thursday morning at 0600, but we had to call at 0530 to see if they had room for us.
Ben and I both left there a little blown away! I really didn't want to be induced and have a planned thing but we talked about it and agreed that it was better for the both of us to do it then let it get really bad. We were in the car and looked at each other and were like-um we're having a baby tomorrow, we get to meet our little one tomorrow! We spent the afternoon together thinking it was the last time it would be just us- that was a little different. We grabbed some pastries and decaf coffee, shopped, and came home to tell everybody the news! I tried to rest the remainder of the evening. We charged the camera, made sure all of our bags were packed and set by the door. It was pretty late by the time we crawled into bed. I had the hardest time sleeping. I was up every hour with pure excitement and racked nerves thinking I'd sleep through my alarm (that I checked over 10 times).
Well, 0500 rolled around and I just stayed up so I could call right at 0530! It turns out that everyone else thought 11th was a good day to have a baby as well. They were full so they said to call back at 0930. I fell back asleep and called at 0930 only to be pushed back again. This time they said it was okay to eat something small and to call again at 1200. Once again I called back to be told they would call me in a few hours. By this time I was getting anxious, irritated, was grumpy, and tired/ God love my husband who was amazing the entire day! He put up with my pacing and grumping and all the lovely moods I went through that day! haha They hadn't called me back by 1500 so we gave them another hour and I was going to call them.
I called at 1600 and was extremely surprised when she said, ooh good- we have room for you, come in an hour! I had already talked myself into the induction starting tomorrow so was blown away when she said to come in! I had to stop and take a minute to think about it! I only had a minute because we had to hurry and drop off Beretta at Ben's buddies house then head to the hospital. Retta was more than happy to jump in the bed of a truck. She was so excited, I was more worried about being away from her than she was. I'm pretty sure she was like " Ben and Jaimie who?" as soon as she got in his truck! haha :)
We got to the hospital, got to our room Delivery Room #4. It was a huge room! I was so excited that there was only one bed per room and that this huge one was just ours! They came in and started my IV but shortly after got hit with 3 babies being born, an emergency c-section, and shift change. We were just sitting around so Ben went down to the shoppett and rented some movies, he grabbed some dinner and snacks, and brought me back a surprise! He bought me the new Beth Moore book and the movies he rented were all girly ones I had wanted to see. I have the best husband-ever. It was nice but a little but of a long wait. I didn't get to see the doctor until 2100. They first tried mechanical dilation to see if it would put me into labor without pitocin. Well... it didn't work and was the most painful 4 hours ever!!
They started the pit around 0200 and just kept turning it up. It wasn't too bad in the beginning. They weren't real aggressive with turning it up until 0700 when day shift came it. The contractions were painful but I was able to rest. I didn't sleep but was able to rest. Ben dozed off and on. Things still weren't progressing, I had been stuck at 5cms for 15hours, so they broke my water around 1445 and after that it because very real! The Pit was up to 36 and I was in active labor. I hadn't slept in over 24 hours and the contractions were every 2 minutes and were the most painful experience of my life-actually the back labor was worse than the actual contractions. I tired to stand and walk during the contractions but couldn't do it. I sat on a ball for awhile and was really struggling. By that time my gallbladder was hurting so much that I had no relief from it. The doctor and nurse both advised rethinking an epidural due to the amount of time I had been in labor, not sleeping, my gallbladder, and how hard labor was with the pitocin. I really wanted to do everything naturally but knew being that exhausted would not be good once the time pushing came around. Ben and I though that getting the epidural would be okay and a good idea. They came to do it around 1545. It was a low epidural so I could still feel the contractions and move my legs. I was able to relax and was starting to drift off when I got so nauseous had got the biggest urge to push!
Ben called the nurse in and the checked me, I was 9.5 cms!! The nurse laughed and said see what happens when you relax? About 20 minutes later I had to call her back in and said I had to push right now! She checked me and was like ooh my, theres the baby! haha She said I told the doctor he had time to go get something to eat- I better go get him, your ready now! haha I was like yes, please do! I started pushing at 1745 and an hour later at 1842 our Audrey made her appearance!! Ben was amazing. He encouraged me, held me, helped me push, and was the best support, I couldn't have asked for better. The doctor didn't tell us whar she was, I wanted Ben to tell me but when she was born he didn't say anything. He just had this look of shear amazement and I knew instantly we had a little girl. The nurses were like okay Dad what do we have and he didn't say anything! haha I had to look down to find out!
I was really scared at first, she didn't want to breathe much when she came out. She had the cord around her next one time. They put her on my chest first but then took her over to the warmer when she didn't start screaming. They gave her a little bit of oxygen and dried her off pretty good. She started crying pretty good. They were worried at first because her face looked a little blue but after she started crying they realized it was just bruising, poor baby. She looks so much like Ben and had light brown hair with the top blonde. She was the most beautiful baby I had ever seen. I kept looking down, in awe that the little one on my chest was our baby. The baby that had spent the past 9 months wiggling and kicking inside me was now in my arms. Ben and I just stared at her.
The entire 3 trimester all I could think about was how amazing a sub from subway would taste! I hadn't had a cold cut in a super long time and couldn't wait to get my hands on one! During labor I asked Ben if he could get me one after I had the little one. After a 26 hour labor- I WAS STARVING! haha In fact, right before I started pushing I told Ben, I'm soooo hungry for that hoagie! haha SO, Ben being the most wonderful man that he is, he went down to Subway 4 minutes before they closed and got me the biggest sub I had ever had! haha He told the lady to double everything, his wife just had a baby and she was starving! haha Let me tell you, that sub was the best tasting sub to date!! I ate almost all 12 inches!!! 6 right after delivery then the other 6 when we got to the recovery floor.
After the pitocin was turned off and the epidural was out I was able to get in the shower. Ben held Audrey and when I got out the nurse had come in to give Audrey her bath before we went down to the Mother Baby recovery. It almost midnight by the time we made it there. I was so exhausted and hungry. They were completely full and had 2 people to a room. When we got into our room I looked around and saw there was no place for Ben. I felt a wave of panic all the sudden thinking he wouldn't be able to stay with Audrey and me. He assured me he wasn't leaving. He was going to just sleep in the fold up chair but the bed was a little bigger than a twin but not quite a double bed and he just crawled in beside me. Audrey was up nursing about every 1.5-2 hours. It was wonderful. I was so tired but it didn't matter.
Because it was my first baby I had to stay 2 nights in the hospital. We spent the next day laying in bed staring at Audrey cat napping off and on. We had some visitors and Ben went home for a few hours to grab some things, make some calls and post pictures. He was only gone a few hours but it felt like forever!! He came back cuddled with Audrey and I. We had great nurses, I'm so thankful for them! We had a good roommate, I thought it would be weird at first but wasn't bad at all.
Ben and I both were loving the care we were getting. It was awesome not having to worry about much, having my meals brought to me, snuggle time with Audrey all day, we both were like hmm... lets stay a little longer! The second night went well. They were completely full so they were starting my discharge paper work a little that night so they could just ship us out as soon as the doctors rounded. They came and got Audrey around 0318 (I know the exact time because it was the first time she was away from me and I timed it ) for her shot, weight, and assessment. Not going to lie, I cried and then teared up again when they brought her back at 0346 and I saw the little tears by the corners of her eyes. Ben had to keep telling me she was just fine. I was more worked up than she was!
We got all the paperwork done and starting getting things ready to go home. We were walking out to the car with the car seat and I couldn't believe it. The day we got discharged, 14 March was our year anniversary! Talk about the best anniversary present ever-bringing our little girl home, it was wonderful. The past year has been the best year of my life. I know everybody says that but really, I've never felt more in place, more happiness, more joy, more love than I have this past year married to the only person for me. Spending an entire year with Ben without deployment or schools that we couldn't be together was such a blessing. Now it also has been the craziest year of my life, by far. Ben gets back from Iraq, one week later gets orders for overseas, two weeks later get married, drive across the entire United States twice, spending 3 months in WA, finding out we were pregnant, brother gets married, moving to Germany, and having our first child. We like to say that we don't mess around and like to get everything big over with. We don't like to waste time! haha
We can't even begin to tell you how much your thoughts and prayers were/are appreciated!! God has blessed us beyond measurement and we are so thankful!
Because this is such a huge post I'm going to break it up. I have soo much more to write about! On to part 2!!!!